Workshops help young women prep for sorority life
by Sally Litchfield
MDJ Features Editor
sallylit@bellsouth.net
June 08, 2012 12:00 AM | 2570 views | 9 9 comments | 13 13 recommendations | email to a friend | print
From left, lifestyle coach Debbie Ficken, Kudzu Embroidery & Gifts owner K.A. Brewer and lifestyle coach Greta Rowe are conducting The Art & Etiquette of Rush Workshops for rising college freshman females interested in sorority life.<br>Staff/Todd Hull
From left, lifestyle coach Debbie Ficken, Kudzu Embroidery & Gifts owner K.A. Brewer and lifestyle coach Greta Rowe are conducting The Art & Etiquette of Rush Workshops for rising college freshman females interested in sorority life.
Staff/Todd Hull
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What’s all the rush about? Just ask Debbie Ficken and Greta Rowe. The two lifestyles coaches are conducting The Art & Etiquette of Rush Workshops for rising freshman collegiate girls considering joining a sorority.

The two-hour extensive workshops will take place this month on Sunday afternoons at Kudzu Embroidery & Gifts at 1311 Johnson Ferry Road, Suite 214 in Merchants Walk shopping center in east Cobb. K.A. Brewer, owner, has merchandise for sororities that can also be personalized.

“Preparation equates with confidence, and it is our goal to empower these young women to be their authentic selves,” she said. The workshops are an extensive prep course for going Greek. “We wanted to remove the nervousness of the process of Rush for both the girls and their mothers and with our personal and professional experience. We knew we had valuable information to share that would be of benefit. We plan on making this an annual event,” Rowe said.

Both Ficken and Rowe have hands-on experience with the rush process. Their daughters — Alexandria Ficken and Zara Gray Rowe — are members of sororities at the University of Alabama and Georgia College and State University, respectively.

“What we teach in the workshop will be excellent for Rush, but even more importantly, it will also be etiquette protocol these girls can refer to and access forever more,” Ficken said.

Rowe said, “We want to polish and refine the best in every girl so that they will be proud to be themselves and never even consider pretending to be someone they are not.”

The workshops will cover such topics as seeking recommendations, how to ask questions and demonstrate gratitude properly, resumes, what to wear the week of Rush, portraits and headshots, grooming (hair, makeup, nails and tanning), what to expect from beginning to end, troubleshooting, what to say, what not to say, social media and how to sit, stand and walk.

No preference will be given to one sorority over another, but the workshops will provide a comprehensive overview of the Panhellenic society and things that sisterhood has to offer.

“We are pleased that the girls will leave our workshop with all the tools necessary to confidently embrace Rush. We are even more proud that the skills they will acquire will enable them for years to come as they navigate through job interviews and many other social avenues of their lives,” Ficken said.

The cost is $195. The first workshop is Sunday, followed by June 17 and 24, from 1:30 to 3:30 p.m. and 4:30 to 6:30 p.m. Participants will receive gift bags. Private sessions are also available.

Download the registration form at www.scribd.com or call (678) 760-1145 for more information.

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Real Sorority Alumna
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June 11, 2012
Please show me Sorority Alumna 2 where it says both mothers were in sororities themselves. It mentions their daughters being members. Once a member of a sorority, always a member of a sorority. If my daughter went through and joined another sorority and I wanted to give rush advice, I'd make sure to let people know that I have first-hand experience as a member of a sorority and a daughter who is currently Greek. This is a waste of money.
The actual daughter
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June 12, 2012
Can't speck for everyone, but considering I AM the daughter they are talking about, I think I would know more than anyone.

Debbie P. Ficken: Pi Beta Phi, University of Tennessee, pledged 1977

Alexandra Ficken: Delta Delta Delta, University of Alabama, pledged 2007

If you don't believe it, I'm sure you can look it up somewhere.

Delta Love and Roll Tide! :)
Sorority Alumna
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June 08, 2012
How can women who were NOT Greek themselves choose to hand out advice to people based on the experiences of their daughters? This sounds like helicopter parents trying to make a quick buck off innocent people. That's like saying, "I will give you advice on what it takes to be a Marine or Navy Seal because I am married to a Marine or Navy Seal." Honestly, this is ridiculous. Please do not allow these women to steal your money.

More Free advice (from an ACTUAL Sorority woman): Check with your local Panhellenic to see how you can do well in recruitment. Here is the website:

http://www.atlantapanhellenic.org/
anonymous
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June 09, 2012
TOTALLU AGREE! You have to be on the other side of it to understand what it's like!
Sorority Alumna 2
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June 11, 2012
BOTH of these women were very involved with Panhellenic and pledged sorority life at SEC schools. They know exactly what it takes. Not every young woman can take away from an "Atlanta" panhellenic website...

Probably not even your daughter.
interested observer
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June 08, 2012
You must be kidding!! $195? Tanning advice? Get real.

E Post
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June 08, 2012
Is today April 1st?

Here is from free advice that will be worth far more to those aspiring sorority rushees than a $200 workshop on common sense and civility...

Clean up your Facebook. It is your resume'.
Retiree1
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June 09, 2012
Oh gosh, yes!! about cleaning up one's Facebook page! Don't "young people" know that prospective employers check social media sites on a regular basis on job candidates??
"Young Person"
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June 11, 2012
Trust me. Us "young people" have known how to work Facebook much longer than you have.
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